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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH would never make a joke like that, but he knows I am sensitive about weight issues/criticism. However, there are probably things he would joke about (e.g., my outdated/schlubby wardrobe) that would offend others, but I'm ok with. It really depends on your relationship. I would suggest saying to him simply "Ouch. Babe, that hurts. You know I'm trying to lose weight and it's a sensitive issue for me." He may just think it's funny and will stop if he knows it's painful for you.[/quote] But is she really trying to lose the weight? My wife has gained 40+ pounds since we met and always says she's trying to lose weight (and isn't.) Yet she still eats more than me, doesn't exercise daily, and often makes other eating choices she knows aren't the best. And I do find her less attractive. And she knows that. That said, jokes and comments from me about her eating don't help. So I keep it zipped.[/quote]
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