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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Female, early 50s, yes to all three. We have an active sex life and it’s not like I’m ashamed of anything, but am entitled to a private life, too. Married over 25 years with kids.[/quote]

I get the point about privacy but suppose your spouse welcomed that convo and did so in order to increase the intimacy of your relationship?  Would that change how you approach this?  Or would you still want to keep some or all of that private?[/quote]

My spouse knows and we have a very open communication style. I just meant we don’t discuss on a regular basis. Like, I wouldn’t masturbate and report back. It doesn’t impact how we are together. We do share about #3 when it can lead to something exciting for the two of us, or if I need help working through something, etc. During Covid, the first thing I ran to do when everyone left the house (which was infrequent) was head to my toy closet. Partner didn’t need a report back on that.[/quote]

OP here.  This last raises a #4: The ownership and use of sex toys[/quote]

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