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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m interested in things that people specifically decide to keep hidden or secret in these categories. So if you don’t share an instance of  #1 or #2 that occurred today because you’ve told DH about instances last week and you don’t think he cares to know about more recent examples, that would’t count. But if you decide not to tell him because you think he’d blame your lack of interest in sex with him on that, that would count. [/quote]

I don’t tell him everything because he might consider the solo thing excessive but also because it’s weird to say “hey I just finished pleasuring myself.” I do sometimes say “nah this can be a quickie, I took care of myself earlier,” and I might mention it in passing. Same with Pron or fantasies.

But my guess is that the overwhelming majority of women who do these things are also very interested in sex with their husbands. I imagine the same is true for men too but I know that it pron can create unhealthy expectations so maybe not. [/quote]

Nowadays there is also feminist or sex-positive porn available that avoids some of the negative stuff in “regular” porn. Thinking in particular of the work of Erica Lust. [/quote]

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