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[quote=Anonymous]You can only control yourself OP. Your kids, who are watching, will, over the course of their whole lives not just this moment in time, come to their own understanding about their parents' relationship and why it didn't succeed and if that effects their relationship with you or their relationships with others. And they will be a more unbiased judge than you think, because they love you both. I know quite a few people who think their kids have been 'turned against' them but who in reality just acted like their divorce was a war and everyone had to take a side and the kids just couldn't handle it. So be nice if you want or be mean if you want, but your kids will see who chose to be nice and who chose to be mean and it will shape who they choose to be close to. And it really doesn't matter if the meanness or the niceness is earned by your spouse, the question is if your kids deserve to see the meanness. And of course, they do not. [/quote]
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