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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I just reread your post. You have a 3 yo, a 3 mo, and your husband is away for days at a time. Is it possible that you enjoy having DH's cousin around as an extra adult, an extra pair of hands to help with the kids? Even if it isn't anything formal -- was there an expectation that the young woman woudl live with you rent free because she was family, and would help out as a member of the family would? I ask because you don't seem upset about having the BF move in as well, just want him to help with babysitting etc. If you feel you are getting something from the arrangment, then my advice is different. I was assuming that you were happy to help this young woman out for a bit, but would eventually want her to move on (i.e. in a few months). but with the young kids and husband out of town a lot, maybe your priorities are different from what mine in the same situation would be.[/quote]
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