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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t understand.  You’re giving her advice.  She doesn’t take the advice.  But she’s also mad you aren’t giving her advice?  [/quote]

OP here. She asked for my advice, I told her what my dad said about it being a waste of money, and then she decided to do it anyway. She will ask my advice on colors, etc., and then get annoyed when I tell her I like something different. When I told her I’m not giving her anymore advice, she got mad and said I’m unsupportive. [/quote]

For the first example of your dad saying something was a waste of money... You can't really fault her for coming to her own conclusion. You and your dad were just PART of her decision making process. She is still free to make her own decisions. Getting huffy about that makes you seem arrogant.

As for your second example of her getting annoyed because you liked something different, what do you mean?

Saying you won't give her advice anymore can come off as "oh poor me, nobody listens to me, I guess I must be worthless." It's obnoxious. [/quote]

DP if someone ask for advice from someone in the trade and you ignore it ..fine. It’s your money and time. If that same person ask about color selection but get butt hurt when you give it(and starts a fight) ….that is obnoxious and childish. His girlfriend needs to grow up. So if OP is smart he would stop give advice or opinions when his gf ask. She does not want his advice or opinions only validation. If she does not get validation she attacks him. Some how in your world OP should continue to be abused by his girlfriend. [/quote]

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