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[quote=Anonymous]Some people are negative, life sucking drain pipes.
I have noticed that people like your sister are usually hard working at everything they do. They might take the time to listen to a friend, or studying more or just making an effort, like in a drama class.
The thing is you are not seeing things about yourself, but you are seeing her. That tells a lot, instead of focusing on your life, you are focusing on how unfair your life is compared to hers.
This is a symptom of a bully, that life is unfair, that you should have the same things as someone else, that you are deserving of it...without a single shred of introspection and realization that maybe your own decisions resulted in your state... which is always of unhappiness, bcs you can't derive happiness within yourself, you seek it outside.
Instead of asking, what do I DO to achieve things I want.

She did things that you are blind to, due to your petty, bully nature.
Bullies struggle with everything, bcs they see everything as a snub, insult, unfairness, but they rarely work on achieving their own goals.
Why? A bully can't achieve worth without comparing to others, you have to do it by putting others down. You don't have a sense of self worth, so you derive it by putting others down, like you are trying to do to your sister. You see, in your mind, she is NATURALLY better than you, hence you are not bad, you are great, she just got the genetic luck? That way, you feel that it is nothing you did, that she is lucky and actually worthless, since you can't possibly be worse, less talented, less hard working, less good decision making able, no?
So, you tear her down in your head so you can feel worthy since she is not worthy.
You are an insecure bully. Your sister is the one that has an abusive sister.[/quote]

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