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[quote=Anonymous]When I was younger I appeared to do better than my sister and I was told my sister was cold to me because she was jealous.  Jealous of the holidays I had, jealous of the house I bought, jealous of the successes I was having.  I didn't understand as I wasn't doing anything other than living my life.  I didn't see it.

Fast forward 20 years and I had infertility problems and couldn't have children and my sister went on to have four children and has since travelled as well.  Is she happy, no she now tries to rub my face in it how much better her life is than mine.

Our relationship is horrible and I often wonder what's the point.  That's the thing with life, it can and does go up and down, periods of success and periods of yuck.

I am happy for my sister and not competitive with her however what a waste.  There is nothing to say your sisters success will continue.  Being competitive will only hurt you.  Its not an easy fix but rarely does anyone go through life unscathed. Life has bumps in the road so this jealousy is simply a waste.  Work on you because thats the only thing here that matters.[/quote]

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