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Reply to "Plans for supporting elderly parents causing relationship issues??"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote][b]He feels pressure to provide for his parents (who never hinted before when they were living the high life that funds were limited). I feel absolutely terrified that this man with not enough of his own retirement and not enough savings for his kid to go to college is going to end up ruining my life financially because he doesn't know how to say no to anybody (parents, adult kids, even ex wife). [/b][/quote] This should be the nail in the coffin on the idea of marriage to this man any time soon and probably ever. I hate to join the chorus, but legally obligating yourself through marriage looks like a huge mistake. And don't be naive - once you are the daughter in law all the duties that the rest of the family is heaping onto your husband will be imputed through to you.[/quote]
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