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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, are you sure you are communicating effectively with your husband?  Here is what you said:

"I say no, because he plans to be out most of the day on a bike ride, and I didn't like the guy much last time he came over, and don't want to deal with him alone."

Here is what your husband did:  made sure that you would have not to deal with him alone.

Before you get a divorce, maybe you should make sure you actually made your desires clear.  [/quote]

and I said I didn't like the guy much the last time he came over. I said that point blank. He wants to hire the guy because he fancies himself some kind of 'helper of man' and that takes precedence over whether or not it makes me uncomfortable. He did not have to hire THIS person. And he sure as hell did not have to do it today because it was convenient for the man he wants to help.

Been married to him for over two decades and trust me when I tell you it's a pattern. He simply turn no into 'not now' or 'because'.  I suspect he's on the spectrum but I no longer care to deal with the quirks.[/quote]

Tell the guy that your husband didn't check with you and today won't work and send him away. If your husband gripes tell him you told him point blank you didn't want the guy around, much less on your birthday so you solved the problem yourself. Then leave the room and no more discussion.[/quote]

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