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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get that your upset, but your husband must be devastated too. I would be sure to remind him regardless of this diagnosis that you love him regardless if you can/cannot have biological children. See what the doc says and then examine your options. You both need to support each other. Best of luck! [/quote] I'm sure he's devastated that he spent years being careful only to realize he never had to.[/quote] As someone who was never able to conceive with my own genes, please shut the h*ll up. Men grieve the loss of genetic children just like women, and no, all of those wasted years on birth control are not one of the things you grieve when confronted with that news. [/quote] Just because you're experience is different doesn't make PP's comment less accurate. Different people react differently.[/quote] Get outta here with your vague rationalization. That comment was glib, tone deaf, unhelpful and totally unnecessary. OP already shared that her dh couldn’t talk about it yet. He’s hurting. He’s not flippant about it.[/quote]
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