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[quote=Anonymous]Right now you’re just a guy who’s mad at his wife. Your wife may be all you say she is, and likely is, but until you file paperwork, that’s all you are, legally. Her debts are your debts, you’re on any mortgages and leases, etc., etc.

If you don’t file paperwork this week or take every next step possible to move this along, you just wanna complain about your wife.

Also she can ring up all sorts of debts minus the formal paperwork, and you’d be on the hook for those or have a devil of a time getting off the hook.

If you’re in the same or near enough to the country of origin as your STBX i would look into a transfer. If she is some sort of dual citizen, she might be able to travel based off of that if she tells some sob story to the other country’s officials (or gives a well placed bribe.)

Realize she has no obligation to act in your, your adult children’s, or even her own self interest. Be prepared for self destructive behavior - she won’t care what she is doing to herself as long as it’s hurting you.

She can also “cure herself” around other people as needed. Until that paperwork is filed she is your legal wife and can/will present and live as such.

I don’t know the particulars but would it be helpful if you went back to the states for 1-2 weeks at the beginning and the end of the process? I’m sure you can give your lawyer a limited power of attorney for this but it helps to have your boots on the ground for this. [/quote]

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