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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really don’t think so. It is pretty hard to keep that under wraps for years on end with someone with whom you have a strong emotional tie. I mean he did have some arrogance in seeing himself as the prime mover in their relationship and undervalued her contribution, at least to me. I was once in their home and you couldn’t even tell she lived there. I don’t think he could have been a tremendous day to day ahole though, as they were a very effective parenting team. I think it was more like he just didn’t find anyone better for him than her, had lowered his expectations of romantic love, found her comfortable and devoted, liked the stability and eventually married her in his late 40s when he finally decided to have kids with her. When I knew him it seemed caring but loveless on his part. He was protective of her, that is how their relationship started. They had ordinary LTR/marriage grievances, nothing to cheat over. They both loved their family. It was more that he unexpectedly discovered someone else (me) who seemed just right for him when he wasn’t looking—but too late for the choices he had already made.[/quote]

Oh god. What a frickin’ cliche.  Do you hear yourself? You are like every delusional OW out there. Lol[/quote]

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