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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have five file boxes of records from the divorce. Kept so when the kids are adults I can show them what a huge liar their mother is. [/quote]

You are an absolutely garbage parent and person, regardless of the details.

- Child of an acrimonious divorce[/quote]

Not so fast. I tend to look down on the person behaving badly versus the postman bringing the news.
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NP - kids don't need or want the dirty details. Anything more than a brief and factual account of your story is TMI. They will know you by the character they've seen in each of you and that you continue to show them. Dumping a huge pile of gross facts on them might "prove" whatever you're still trying to litigate, but it's not going to make them think any better of you.

What are you imagining is going to be helpful about kids seeing illicit photos of their parent or seeing transcripts of poisonous conversations? This is your work to deal with, not theirs.[/quote]

NP again - FWIW, this is to add that I'm a therapist who makes my living helping adults come to terms with the terrible emotional boundaries in their families and the many ways it's negatively affected their family and professional lives.[/quote]

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