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[quote=Anonymous]Since you have liked this therapist and found him effective, I wonder if his encouragement is because he has seen how you find flaws no matter the scenario so he is basically saying that all relationships will have some flaws and to have a long term relationship you have to decide this is the person you want to work through those with - not search for a relationship with no flaws. Because that really is the truth. People that make relationships work usually do it because they commit to just getting through it with that person and that includes working on poor communication with each other which I would say most couples work through. That being said, of course if your partner is being emotionally abusive that is a different story. It is hard to tell from your description where this falls, since you say this is the best therapist you’ve had im inclined to trust that his instinct that this is more your response to relationships and something you all can work on together may be correct. You will not find the perfect person or someone you don’t have disagreements with. My husband and I disagree on a lot. And we definitely don’t always fight fair. And sometimes he talks disrespectfully when he gets upset. But we mutually work on those things together, we both apologize and see each other’s point of view eventually (sometimes it takes time) and we commit every day to keep working on it together. Not sure if that helps.[/quote]

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