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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When in reality it's not women who are picky.  If a woman posts about dating struggles one of the first things she's told is she should be open to dating guys shorter than her and who aren't conventionally attractive, she should change her standards of what she's attracted to because clearly, she's asking too much.

These same women are then told to conform to the average beauty standard to attract the less than average guys.

Guys are never told this. They are never told to go for the woman who might be a little chubby, or not super curvy, or who isn't into manicures, makeup, and blowouts every day etc. Their standards are never too high.

And the tired excuse that's given is well men are visual ( as if women don't care), and attraction can grow, and you can fix him up to your standards.

Total garbage, but I find it funny.[/quote]

This is just comes off as whiny. Men are expected to ask the woman out. If you are asking someone out, you will pick someone who you find attractive. Most of your complaining seems to be in response to what other women find attractive about women.

Men’s ideal of attractiveness is not what women find attractive. Men do ask out, date and marry chubby or non- curvy women. Men do not care about manicures, makeup and blowouts. Those are things women judge other women on.

[b]Instead of complaining how unfair it is. Start asking out guys you find attractive.[/b] That means you have to risk rejection just like men do but when a guys says yes you can not complained that you had to settle. [/quote]

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