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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PPs, please stop advising OP to violate the parenting plan. She has already explained why that's not a good idea. OP, you know better.

What does your parenting plan say about how to resolve disputes, particularly w/r/t medical issues? Me, I'd probably argue it out on the messenging system so that his batsh*t objections, whatever they are, are also in the record. I would record very clearly that Jane and Bobby have asked to be vaccinated so that they can safely attend in person school, that it is already too late for them to be fully vaccinated before school starts, and that further delays only endanger the children's health and safety.

Good luck. Stay strong.[/quote]

Nope. This is an emergency. OP should have done that in April. But she didn't so now it's vaccination and not telling their father.

Stop crying, OP. Their father will not relent. If he ever changes his mind, THEN you can tell him. What's he going to do?[/quote]

Calm down. It is important and time sensitive, but it is not "an emergency" that would prevent OP from following (or at least embarking on) whatever the process is for how to resolve disputes. My divorce agreement and custody plan is crystal clear about what we do if we can't agree on a particular issue. I am just saying that OP should try to do this above board because of her ex's previous litigious behavior before going rogue and getting her kids vaccinated against the agreement.

Doing what you're suggesting has very real financial and potentially custodial consequences, which I personally would not be willing to risk for something that is not, in fact, an emergency. [/quote]

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