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[quote=Anonymous]"I explain that I made a choice not to let it ruin my life she yells at me" She is not capable of doing this because she is too messed up. At the point it happened to you, I doubt you could have taken that advice, either. It would have sounded a lot like "fix yourself" or "put it out of your mind, it's all in your head". You got better by using therapy to get to the point where you could take control. She needs to do the same. She's trying to skip that step and obviously she is not capable of doing that. She needs therapy, and don't shy away from that. You are a good friend. If she makes you feel like shit, imagine how her husband feels. It's the assault talking, she's not in control right now. [/quote]
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