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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, thank you, your thoughts about outsourcing are helpful. Do you mind saying how much you make and what you do? I'd actually love to be able to afford a yard person and housekeeper. But it sounds like your life is overly busy and you never have time to relax. I also worry about not having enough time with DCs. Part of earning more may be an ego thing as well (for me). It's exciting and feels good to be a high wage earner and to be able to do and have the things that go with it, especially when you are surrounded by other high wage earners.[/quote] Lawyer, $500K. DH makes slightly less. I would love to have more time. Yard people are not as much fun as going to the nursery yourself and planting yourself. Cleaning, laundry, cutting grass - meh. But caring for your home, having time to think, having time to improve your home, picking your own flowers, organizing your children's rooms yourself, and having time to relax - priceless. Not to mention time to finish a board game with DCs. I'm always saying things like, "Mommy MUST get on a call at 3:00! We have to end now." Think very carefully about this and what you want your balance to look like. I'm not sure I am a model to follow. It's kind of sad. I think about retirement (20+ years off) all the time. But then I realize I may come down with some stress-related disease and never make it. Or make it and realize that I don't have nearly enough money to enjoy it because I spent it all just trying to survive this life. Again, think carefully. I aspire to be someone who changes her linens and throw pillows seasonally. We'll see if I ever get there... [/quote]
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