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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here.  Wow! Some of you are super judgmental. Why am I dating him? WTF?.  I'm dating him for the reasons most people date someone,  He's a nice guy, I'm attracted to him. I enjoy spending time with him. I see him in my future etc.

Why we waited 3 months. # mont and exclusivity are my requirements for sex. It works for me and he didn't have a problem with it.  We have been physical with each other, just no sex yet, and what we have shared so far has been enjoyable.

I have already said that he does not want to do overnights because he wants to be around to put his kids to bed. I also assume wake up with them in the morning, and I guess to be there if they get up during the night. I can't fault him for wanting that. I also don't think he needs to tell his kids anything about us yet.
He's been widowed for 3 years, his children are 3,7 and 9.[/quote]

Hi OP - only you know what’s ok with you or not and also what the vibe feels like between you.  If you want a relationship with sex as a priority - you can have that maybe even with this guy if he wants that too.  Right now, per your own rules, you could be having sex at lunch the 2-3x a week that you see him … why do you think that’s not happening?[/quote]

We only just crossed over the 3-month mark. I didn't have it marked on my calendar as sex day, but I guess I did hope that once the time came it would happen. As for why it hasn't happened I can't say for sure. Maybe we are both waiting for the other to initiate. I can also say that grandma doesn't babysit every week, and we don't always have the whole hour for lunch.  Depending on workflow sometimes it's just a 15 to 30 minute break sometimes,  we try to do other things when we meet up, like the stuff you normally do on your break. I guess my thread is mostly about thinking ahead and what this will look like moving forward,  I suppose next time together I will have to initiate, though I generally prefer when the guy does.[/quote]

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