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[quote=Anonymous]I was a SAHM and I was tired by the end of the day with the baby. My DH was a HUGE HELP and he loved to be with the baby so when he came back home it was like salvation to me.   Nope, my DH was not getting much attention from me and he was ok with it.  In fact, since I was EBF till 9 months on demand, my libido was non-existent.  My DH was A-OK with that too. Do you know why? Because sleep was the thing that both of us wanted because we both were doing our best with the baby.  If your DH is not helping as much as he can with the baby then he will not understand how tiring it is during the first year.

We have been happily married for 30 yrs now.  Our youngest is ready to go to college in Fall. My DH was very supportive BF when we were dating and a considerate husband when we got married.  But, when he became the involved dad to our babies, he transformed our marriage and family into something special. I loved being a mom because I was tremendously supported by my DH. The best gift you can give to your children is a great dad. And my DH is a great dad.

I don't understand this nonsense I oftentime keep hearing that young dads don't want to pull their weight at home.   And they especially are reluctant to do anything if their wives are SAHMs.  SMH. What kind of idiots have you ladies married? This seems like a new thing to me. I don't know any dad of my generation (in our 50s) in our social circle who were not in the trenches in the first few years. [/quote]

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