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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I text my kids 3 weeks before my birthday. I also tell them what is an acceptable gift. When they disappoint me I explain why and what would have been acceptable.I’m still teaching them. It’s been about 4 -7 years since they were old enough (16) to do it themselves. They get better every yesr. It’s a process. Yes. The feeling of disappointment is real and understandable but I don’t take it personally. [/quote] Happy 50th OP! I think this is on the right track, if a bit blunt. Your family shouldn't ignore your birthday while you celebrate them. What kind of example is that setting for their future spouses and family? My kids are little and they are spoiled with their birthdays from extended family because they are little, and I've been trying to teach them they need to reciprocate even if it's just a card and a homemade gift.[/quote]
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