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[quote=Anonymous]Op, you will need to manage your expectations (as in, not have any) And I am probably your age with adult children. We get along great, but you will need to have a very soft approach. Young people, usually, do not feel confident re: time off. How much time they will have off. Feeling confident about it very far in advance. They may wish to please you, and yet, you are close to needing to please them. They will likely need to be in the driver's seat re: plans. Don't have "tradition" guide your plans. When you mentioned tradition, there is an expression ~ Tradition is the Tyranny of Fixed Expectations.[/quote]
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