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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. How do parents choose between what they need for themselves and what is best for their children? I don’t want to be married to this person but how do I weigh that with my children’s needs? I also feel guilty that if I hadn’t gone away for a week this wouldn’t have happened. Like it’s my fault this all happened. [/quote]

16:37 here. What is best for your kids is to have at least one healthy well parent. This is falling on you. You need to do what you need to do to be well. This is what abuse does, it sucks you dry. It will only get worse. Everything you say is common for abused and controlled people. Can you see a therapist? You are not responsible for his actions. He is a grown up. It is not like this for everyone.  Your children to not need to be patented by an addict. I don't think what you've shared here is all that is happening. It can be very subtle and a good therapist will help you see. Abuse happens gradually and becomes normalized. Take care op, you can find the light of day again.[/quote]

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