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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No to affair.

She is sick of doing things for other people. She thinks if she can leave she can reclaim who she wants to be. She regrets stalling her career.

Here is the thing. She is having a midlife crisis. Leaving won’t fix any of this for her.

This isn’t your fault. You can’t fix it.

I wouldn’t do a full 180 but I’d encourage her to move out and  figure it out but your not waiting for her to figure it out.

She’ll be back in 6-9 months.

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Umm, no.  Leaving fixes a lot of problems when you live with self-centered people.  My husband is now my ex and still expects me to do stuff for him.  But now I can simply say NO and hang up the phone or close the door and that is the end of it.  My house is clean, and I only have myself to clean and cook for.  I can do what I please.

It’s not a midlife crisis when a woman says she is tired of putting everyone become herself.  It is a back-to-life crisis because the woman wants to get back to her life. [/quote]

+1 She wants her life back. People who assume this is an affair are nuts. She wants to live her own life. She has given you and your family HER life and wants to have her own before she gets any older.  I don't think she will be back. I think it is over. But who knows.[/quote]

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