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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you should wear what you are comfortable in, not what you think you "should" wear. If you prefer a one-piece bathing suit or a tankini, then wear that. I have never been comfortable in a bikini, even when I had the body to wear one (I don't now), so I've never worn one.[/quote] I'm the same, and I'm not from a super conservative family or area. I just don't like wearing such little clothing, and I hate feeling like I ever have to tug things into place or adjust straps or whatever. I didn't necessarily worry about my DH looking at women in skimpy bikinis, but I know he likes seeing me in one and I felt pressure to do it. But around the time I had a kid, I just decided the most important thing was me feeling important and I just bought what I wanted. I like one pieces and I often just wear a cover up a lot of the time so I don't have to stress about sun exposure. The pool is not where I want to worry about being sexy. I'd prefer to save that for date night or at home, where I can wear something revealing and not feel so much like I'm on display.[/quote]
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