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Reply to "I feel very unappreciated as a mother"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would take care of what the kids and I need and do absolutely nothing for my husband if he behaved like that (mine fails to understand it acknowledge what I do, but he doesn't criticize me for dropping balls either). So I would buy the groceries that the kids and I like, do laundry for the kids and me, plan the activities that the kids and I want to do, facilitate my family's relationship with the kids but not his family's, etc. If he's not going to contribute to the household, the very least he can do is handle his own business.[/quote] P.S. while I resent needing to cruise direct everything, I do for some things. For example, we take turns getting up with the kids in the morning. At first, my husband was not making their lunch for school on his days, instead leaving that for me when I got up and we were rushing out the door. I told him everything from waking up through walking to the car is his responsibility on his days. This should have been obvious, but since he kept trying to slither out of it, I made it explicitly clear. [/quote]
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