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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. I thought things were going very well. Things seemed like they were becoming very serious. We had discussed moving in together, marriage, kids, etc. She’s in the healthcare field and has student debt. She found an opportunity to pay it down. She got an offer to work as a travel nurse but she will have to sign a 3 year contract. She will either be in one location or multiple locations. This job pays much higher, especially in rural areas. I want to her to do what’s best for her, but 3 years is a long time. We will be apart for most of the 3 years. That will delay everything -moving in, getting engaged, kids, etc. I’m trying to be supportive but I feel like she is choosing this over our relationship. She says she loves me and thinks we are strong enough to make it but that’s a lot to to put on hold. I don’t know what to do. Any advice? [/quote] OP, you did not commit or proposed so she's doing what's best for her. You should have put a ring on that finger. [/quote]
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