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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Your messages super useful, and thanks for the empathy.  For those who are encountering this early in your relationship, put your foot down early.  I have waited too long. Years ago I was really hurt by this, and a couples counselor told my husband to stop calling me such names, in exchange for me forgetting/forgiving. But now it is happening all the time again--  and the apologies afterward from DH seem disingenuous because it happens again a couple days, or a few weeks later.  He apologies but conditions it on that my poor communication style is at fault, that he does not like the tone of my voice.  Really I am not a yeller, and if anything my tone can probably sound pained or emotional, or he projects meaning into something I have not said, and then the b-word or f-bomb comes out from him.  But at times it is for mundane things like not getting the right sandwich for him (okay, that was years ago, but you get the point).  It is helpful to know that this is not normal (hello, denial for me, apparently!), and also that others have experienced this..[/quote]

OP do you have kids?  If so or not- please do it for them!  Do not accept this behaviour- seriously- imagine someone was treating your child with these words- this might helpy ou get the inner fire.. do not accept this but please do.. best [/quote]

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