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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know someone who is 30 and has been living with her boyfriend over a year. They had dated at least a year before this. She wants to get married to him and their families are all for it and they’re in love.  Anyone been there and had the happily ever after? [/quote]

If she is not mature enough to have a conversation with the person she lives with about getting married, she probably should not do it. getting married is not the end of the trip.  also I am not sure why the fact that "their families are all for it" is relevant. what is relevant is [b]if the guy is for it or not and she can find it out by asking. [/b]

what you describe does not look at all as if they both want to get married. if this was the case, they would easily talk about it and do it. you describe a woman anxious to get married, who seems to be considering to pressure the guy into getting married (mention of both families wanting them to marry, then considering whether an ultimatum is a good idea). and a guy who probably is not sure yet.  again, your lady can just ask, as long as she wants to hear the answer [/quote]

I don’t know that you can expect a man to be completely honest in this situation, especially if it means breaking up with a woman he loves, or even just making her cry.  It’s very easy to say that yes, you want to get married soon, you are just looking for the right ring or whatever, and to even mean it in the moment, but then to not actually follow through with it.  [/quote]

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