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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm very grateful my DH is not tolerating bigoted behavior. He's from a very white and wealthy background and until we were in a relationship didn't really have to think about these things. Now as an interracial couple and father of none-white kids he is fiercely protective and very responsive to intolerance and bigotry. That's amazing! However sometimes as a brown person it feels like the burden of these friendships ending is on me. Maybe it's totally illogical. However I'm glad to have an ally. [/quote] Absolutely not. His friend’s wife chooses to be racist, so she can deal with the fall-out from that behavior. And I would think about what issues you are personally dealing with that would lead you to believe the burden is because of you. Stop with that nonsense. - Fellow Brown Person (married to a White Person)[/quote]
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