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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, thanks for the perspectives. I should add to details that might make a difference. [b]Friend was married in a small ceremony last year that we attended, but this is the 'official' wedding.[/b] Booking a rental car isn't recommended in this city. The city has had some safety issues, but that my friend tells us she is keeping us in an area where we won't encounter any problems. Still on my mind. If I went alone I probably could do it for $1000 which isn't bad. I feel guilty because my work requires some travel and so I've already left DH alone 1 this year and he'll have to do it 2 more times if I go on this trip.[/quote] OP, I'd have a really hard time doing this, toddler birthday or not, having already been to my friend's actual wedding ceremony. $1,000 isn't an insignifigant amount of money in our house, and it also sounds like you're trying to balance work travel schedules at home. This may be the "official" wedding, but you've already been to your friend's wedding - if you sit this one out, it's really not the same as skipping her wedding entirely. I am surprised by the number of PPs who don't have a problem traveling on a child's birthday. No, the kid may not know it's their birthday, but the parents do, and maybe I'm just an overly emotional pregnant sap but I like spending birthdays with my family members. [/quote]
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