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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We need to know more about your bf.  25 or 55? Interests or hobbies? Kids? [/quote]

He’s early 40s. Interests are outdoors-y stuff, art, writing, food, music, reading, acquiring knowledge in general. Very artistic, great eye for design. Super intelligent. We do a lot of hiking and outdoors stuff, pre-COVID we’d do classes together. He has 2 older kids.

I’ve asked him what I can do to strengthen our relationship and his reply was basically to tell him when I’m feeling depressed so he can help (I suffer from depression). He’s that kind of person, ha.

Sex is already 💯. Both of us are highly satisfied, and he knows I’m down for anything. We live close to each other, so [b]I’ve started doubling my cooking and dropping some off for him.[/b] I’m trying to plan more of our outings since he does most of that labor, and I’m saving up for a post-pandemic trip. [/quote]

The bold is hugely unattractive and controlling, IMO.  He is a grown man who has somehow learned to feed himself well enough to keep himself alive for 40 years.  It is not your job to cook meals for him like he is some kind of 80 y.o. shut in.  Want to make a nice meal the two of you can eat together once in awhile -- fine.  But dropping off food for him is gross.

Plan outings you can afford. Save for a post-pandemic trip.  Share your interests and be interested in his.  [/quote]

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