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[quote=Anonymous]Say no. Set boundaries. Say to your DH, appreciate that you think this is a good idea, but I prefer to make my own decisions about my home. Talk directly to your son also -- son, this is my home with you, your dad has a home and he is welcome to make decisions about home decor and TVs there. I found that my DH, unreasonably, had expectations that my home was his since his kids lived there -- his to enter at any time, his to walk around as he pleased, his to make suggestions about how I decorated, etc. I had to set firm boundaries with polite refusals. This from a guy who cheated, remarried and purchased an expensive home with only two bedrooms although he has two kids and has never purchased any beds for them to use at his house. Ten years later, they still sleep on a sofa bed and an air mattress in his "office". [/quote]
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