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[quote=Anonymous]I don't know if OP is a man or a woman, but men like to pretend they did not hear things they can't deal with. Some women do that too.
This is so much easier being shoved and blamed on the sister, BCS, to op, the alternative is unimaginable. To know that his/her dad did this in their house, that sister had no safe place in her life, that she might have thought of school as the place to escape.
That her own mom did not do anything or that she couldn't tell her. Once again, she tried to tell someone about it, and she was the one that was blamed for something.
OP said, "she doesn't get to do that," right?
Running is all she knows. Her life is a nightmare that she can't escape. 
OP is upset BCS she/he can never visit her/his dad again without thinking about this. BCS op will now have to come up with excuses not to allow the kids to stay with grandpa alone ever. OP will start telling his kids to tell if something happened but will be vague about it, and kids will start feeling that they have something to hide.
Most of all, OP will tell this to the spouse who will go ballistic and not allow his dad into the house or go for visits.
And even that, this will be nothing but a fraction of mental and physical torment his/her sister endured and is enduring daily.

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