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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, if you are the one who really doesn't want kids, it makes sense for you to do the bc? Or just protection if you are both willing. You can't force a person to get perm. birth control. Sounds like he just needs a little more time.[/quote]

OP here. I can’t do BC because I’ve had very bad side effects to most of the ones I tried. They also ruin hour natural hormones and it can mess things up once you get off of them. My husband hates using condoms. I love sex so withholding sex is not an option. I find it be very immature and not healthy for a marriage. I think he needs to get a vasectomy.[/quote]

But he won't. So stop making excuses. You are the one being immature now.

I was on BCP for 25 years. Easy breezy. And all the baby free sex I wanted.

I also had a Mirena, and while it was painful for a couple months, it turned out great.[/quote]

OP here. It’s not an excuse. I’m glad things worked for you but that’s not the case with other women. I have tried many birth controls and al of them made me ill. Some gave me dizziness and vertigo, some gave me terrible headaches, and other gave me bad nausea and crazy mood swings. Birth control is not for everyone. Your experience is yours and yours alone. Not every woman has it so easy as you did. Some women actually struggle with those things. Don’t minimize or belittle something you have never experienced. [/quote]

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