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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m the OP and yes we only needed about 25 hours a week and honestly didn’t want to have a share due to space.  We are paying her a competitive rate for one toddler. We definitely talked to professional nannies but they all understandably needed full time.
We also thought it would only need her last fall, but sadly no daycare spots have opened for us and she is available. It’s only frustrating because as far as a part time job goes we ask her to take our daughter out when the weather is nice, feed her lunch and provide general care and pick up toys. 
Agree though that it may be time to just have a conversation.

I also think she doesn’t really need the job, and the money she makes is just for fun since it’s not like she has rent/mortgage or healthcare at her age.[/quote]

Definitely talk to her. I find younger people will try to 'get away' with stuff until you say something. Coming in later as weeks go on, the difference is that older adults can sense an issue and course correct. Those in their 20s - not so much. Or it's a weird game of chicken. She knows she's got it good, she's just pushing boundaries. Set clearer boundaries. If she doesn't get in line, then look into other alternatives. [/quote]

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