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[quote=Anonymous]You have two choices: 1. Downsize your lifestyle so that she can enjoy the same leisure you do: 2. Earn more. Right now your unwillingness to downsize is forcing your wife to carry more of the load. That’s not fair. I think you are dumb if you choose 2), personally, but it’s up to you. But don’t pretend that you’re forced into this position, given that even if you downsize you will still have plenty of money and a lifestyle better than 99.9% of the world. The problem isn’t what you make, the problem is your lifestyle. And also that you are so content for your lifestyle to depend on her discomfort. That’s pretty selfish. If SHE refuses to downgrade your lifestyle then that’s a whole other conversation. But as the person with the cushy job it is incumbent on you to be willing either downsize or work harder. [/quote]
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