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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Truthfully ... I understand your daughter not wanting to call the police. My H does rape investigation but even if she just reports it and has the police bring him in for questioning and not go forward with the case (because there is most likely no evidence) this will inform his parents and cause him some “responsibility “ for his actions... hire a lawyer.

[b]The only way to “catch him” is to do a phone sting with the police where she calls them from their office and says I want you to apologize for what you did, he says sorry and that is an admission of guilt.[/b]

Alternatively, if you call the police and explain the situation they may just go over “to investigate” and that might be enough to scare him straight.

Just putting that out there so you know the process.

There is a 99.9% chance he won’t be convicted without vaginal tears and DNA.

You daughter absolutely needs to see a therapist that deals with trauma. She should do EMDR.

You should fly/drive to go see her and do something she likes to do.

Don’t say stuff like be more careful, don’t do X, it sends a message that she could have prevented this.
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Even this is highly unlikely. He may say a general “I’m sorry you feel that way,” or “I’m sorry you regret it,” or “I’m sorry I pressured you” - none of these are an admission to rape. He isn’t going to come out and say “I’m sorry I raped you.”[/quote]

This is very untrue.

Cops know how to guide the conversation and often she will say, I said no and you did it anyway and he says yes or did we have sex last night I was passed out, and he’s like haha, yea.

Guys don’t think they are raping so they admit it, they don’t know the legal definition.[/quote]

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