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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks. I see. I guess it's more that I don't want to have new/more kids in my orbit. So if the woman doesn't have kids and is happy to become a stepmom to mine without having her own kids, that could work for me and maybe not be as hard to find?[/quote]

I haven’t read the whole thread. I am forty five and don’t want kids but do date divorced dads. I like kids but being the primary caregiver and giving birth and raising them when they are little always seemed like an overwhelming amount of work for me. But having kids around can be nice, as long as I’m not the main person who has to care for them twenty four seven.

A few things:

- I was not willing to date guys with kids until I was 42. The chances of you finding a woman in her thirties or younger who wants to date you and doesn’t want kids is very low. Try for forty two or older.

- Your kids are a little young still for someone who doesn’t want their own kids but might be ok with step kids. I only date guys whose youngest kid is 13. My boyfriends youngest is 14. You may have better luck in a few years.

- When I me willing to date divorced dads, it was like holy cow, bar the bar door,p. I got SO much interest from divorced dads it was insane. Good catches, most of them. I was dating the best looking guys I’ve ever dated. And I’m nothing special. Maybe a seven on a scale of one to ten. So know that if you do find the unicorn, you have a lot of competition.

- I think your goal is a good one. My boyfriend and I don’t have to juggle custody schedules. I can easily work around whatever is schedule is.[/quote]

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