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Reply to "s/o How do you politely, but without lying, reject overtures of friendship?"
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[quote=Anonymous]PP her but another thought: OP, I feel like you are saying it’s a hassle for you to field a friend overture from the same person more than once, and that’s why you’d like a response that makes it clear that no further overtures are welcome. The problem with this is that while a clear “no thanks, I don’t want to be friends” would be more efficient for you, it would be very hurtful for the other person (unless, like you, they only cared about the efficiency of social interactions and not the feeling involved — a rare thing). Your desire for efficiency should not trump the social imperative to be kind when possible. Imagine if everyone only made efficient social choices. The works would be very cold.[/quote]
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