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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This does not sound divorce worthy. Many, many women deal with this. Yes, it sucks. I know. I did everything until my oldest went to kindergarten and youngest was potty trained.

I am divorced. But this is not why. I could have dealt with this.

[b]You wrote: "emotionally available, very loyal, and I love my in-laws"--that is a reason to stay married right there. And if you actually love him--don't divorce--this phase will pass.[/b]

For the record, I am glad I got divorced. But I was in a completely loveless and miserable marriage and I doubted getting married in the first place. It is a completely difference scenario. A guy leaving it all to women happens all the time...but I don't see that as a reason to divorce if the other elements are there. Mine weren't. [/quote]
I so disagree with this statement.  Only two of those things really matter, and neither of them is enough to sustain a marriage on their own.[/quote]

+1. Agree, and I am also one who divorced, though not for this sole reason as thread OP. The above PP is probably valuing that bolded characteristic differently based on her personal experience. To be fair, we all do that. We all have different terms and means of tolerance in how we can live our life and build our family with a person who was a stranger before.

To me - Larger takeaway is that OP has to truly take all things into perspective. If you can get through a few crappy years during the worst year in the history of time (2020), and this is a behavior that is fixable - don't quit just yet. If there are other elements stacking up against the husband, well. Too bad for him.[/quote]

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