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[quote=Anonymous]The most common DCUM solution is throw money at the problem. I’m your case, not a bad idea. House cleaners weekly or bimonthly, mothers helper in the evening, and/or au pair. You can get more help for you if you want to stay married and can afford it. I was on your scenario and divorced. I couldn’t see the loving part of exH, because I lost all respect for him and his inability to be a functioning adult and parent. I am much happier divorced. We split custody 50/50, so he is now forced to parent his children and I have some time to myself. We downscaled housing at first and we both financially support the kids, so I didn’t feel much of a financial hit in my standard of living. I’m now remarried to a man who didn’t have kids, so we’re actually better off financially than when I was married to exH. I wouldn’t let fear of the unknown keep you in the marriage. Individual counseling may be able to help you sort out your feelings and set a path for a better future for you. [/quote]
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