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Reply to "I just want love (in bed) from DH"
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[quote=Anonymous]I get what you are saying. I’ve experienced some of the same. I was frustrated and that lead to some very candid talks with my DH. What helped us was me feeling like my voice and opinion was bring heard some of the time. Once a week, sex is more on my terms. I dictate the tempo and positions. It was weird for DH to let me take the lead, but he couldn’t really argue with - it’s just once a week on my terms. That made me more receptive to his style on other days. We had some balance. Also, lots of positive affirmation when DH does something I like. Stroke my hair, little kisses on my back. I really communicate how much I love it while he’s doing it. Let some things go. Some things he hates, and I don’t push it. Just like some women hate back door and it’s off the table. Some things DH hates and I respect his feelings enough to not push him on those things. It’s things like staring in each other’s eyes during sex. It’s too intimate for him. I let it go. [/quote]
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