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[quote=Anonymous]I think you can tell based on how you navigate chores and other household responsibilities while living together before marriage. Obviously you want him to be doing 50% or more of the actual work, but it also depends on how you get there-- was it a struggle or did he always assume you would split the work? Do you have to remind him/ask him to do stuff all the time? Is there a lot of "mental load" stuff that falls on you to remember and coordinate (does he expect you to find/book plumbers or electricians or coordinate with your landlord when there are issues? to buy presents or send cards to his family members? to schedule social outings with your mutual friends?) Also, does he act like his job and career are more important than yours?[/quote]
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