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[quote=Anonymous]He’s not wrong for wanting a serious relationship and wanting marriage.  He’s also not wrong for bringing it up on the first date. If you don’t, that’s fine, a first date isn’t jail, just walk out the door literally.

As for whatever he did, I’m not sure why you are protecting him. It’s one date after all, not a brother or a friend.  Also, he’s not the only one who got arrested for whatever it was.  I understand why you wouldn’t post the link to his mug shot, but things only become illegal when a lot of people do them and when they pose a risk to themselves or others.  Also, how do you know he isn’t lying about his job?  In other words, why do you believe his job status but are all spun up about an arrest, not a convinction, not a plea of no lo condendre, but an arrest?

If you like this guy, ask him. The way he responds will tell you everything.

Finally, know that just because he got arrested doesn’t mean he did it.  
There is a woman who had a baby in the college town where I went to college.  She had this baby during the time I was at the college and she has the same name as me, an unusual name.  I was hounded for not paying her ambulance bill to the point that my husband sat me down and asked if I’d had a baby during that time.  I hadn’t, and my husband was wonderful, though I also remember thinking “I have no way to prove to you it wasn’t me and I’m not lying”.

I was also hounded to make restitution for some bad checks this woman had written to the point that I had to get a lawyer.

How or why I was never arrested is a mystery to me.  I have no way how I’d have proven to a date that I hadn’t done those things, especially now that I do have children and my body shows it.  The addage “you can’t prove a negative” is very true.

Bottom line, your posting on this guy while refusing to tell us what the hell he was arrested for makes me think the two of you may deserve each other.  [/quote]

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