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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]While I don’t think you can be angry at him, I can get why it would make you doubt things. [b]Once my husband said the thing he loved most about me is that I’m nice, and that’s not really how I see myself per se, or something I care to be valued more for than say, my intellect, loyalty etc whatever[/b]. His answers seem like what he loves about you are things that suppress your actual personality. I understand why it’s upsetting. [/quote]

But your other items can easily be turned around as well.  If someone said loyalty, that to me would mean either you want to do crazy sh%t and expect me to stand by you and not question you.  It’s like how mob bosses value loyalty.  Intellect could seem unexciting.  If someone said looks, that could seem shallow.  Also, there are many people that are nice that are loyal that are smart, that are nice looking but that doesn’t specifically get at why the person loves you and not all the other people that have any of those things.  [/quote]

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