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[quote=Anonymous]You can't be mad that he was honest. He sounds like he is not the most astute or articulate (like many men: they lack emotional intelligence). I think the second thing is a compliment: meaning that you are adaptable, which is a really important quality in life. It helps you be resilient, which we all really need right now (its opposite can be rigidity or inability to pivot when the circumstances mandate that...) The first may also be a sincere compliment, if he is thinking when he sees other wives that they are too chatty and is grateful that you are not. I can see why those would not have been what you had hoped to hear though. Write it off more as him not being good with words/feelings. It does not mean he does not love you. Did you expect him to turn into a poet laureate? Think of what attracted you to him. I suspect it was not his ability to express his feelings or be flowery and complimentary. [/quote]
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