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[quote=Anonymous]OP, how big an issue is money here?  Hypothetically speaking, if you had gotten part of the inheritance from your father, do you imagine you would have then divorced your husband?  I agree with the posters who say that you need to think about what you CAN do, not about what you can't.  So if money is a big issue here (and it sounds like, at least in terms of the potential to divorce, you believe it is), I would start thinking about how to make more of it.  You have a part-time retail job right now, is that right?  I can't imagine that pays very much.  Is there something else you can do to bring in more income?

I know you are very very beaten down right now, and it may feel that no change is possible.  That it's just too hard or not feasible.  But I'd try to break down each of the issues here into smaller pieces, and think about those pieces and what you can do to change them.  Ie. I really want a divorce, what can I do to make myself feel that getting one is a doable option?  Just to take one example.

Several people have suggested therapy.  Have you considered therapy or met with a therapist?  I think this would be a great step as well.[/quote]

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