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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You know you are talking about your helpless infant right??.. a cold place in hell for anyone that puts a tiny baby through this.[/quote] Shut up. Depriving your child of necessary sleep is detrimental to them. A child who is sleep trained will cry far less in that week or days it takes to sleep train than a non-sleep trained baby who wakes and is cranky all day from not getting enough sleep. Sleep is a learned skill. There is nothing wrong with sleep training. [/quote] If we took any grown adult and locked them in a cage while they were covered in vomit and screaming for help with no result until they passed out from exhaustion and stress that adult would be in therapy for PTSD. That is a fact. Why would a little baby be more resilient than a grown adult?[/quote] Parents who prioritize their own sleep...and the justify this sh*t with "babies who sleep train ACTUALLY cry less" are garbage humans. I have no tolerance for extinction "sleep training" and truly wish it were a reportable offense. [/quote] You have not met all babies so if CIO doesn’t work for you, move on, sanctimony. My kids did not know how to put themselves to sleep and woke up every 45 min-2houes. Broken sleep isn’t healthy for anyone. We did what worked for us and my kids were much, much happier being able to sleep 11 hours straight. And yes OBVIOUSLY over the long run there is less crying. A baby that wakes up constantly may be cranky and tired and need help going back to sleep which involves crying. Contrast that with a baby sleep trained in 3 nights/no crying after that. I have no regrets. But I do think it’s bizarre anyone would do this without so much as a baby monitor in the room. [/quote]
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